Oh, the book hangover, the dreaded day after staying up all night reading a good book until you’re a wreck the next day for work. Most of us have been there, drinking way too much coffee, too early in the morning to get to your day job and try to work while still traumatized by the characters in the book you just finished. And while you finished the book, the book wasn’t finished with you. You still mourn for the characters you loved in the book that may have passed under circumstances you never imagined. Heaven forbid if the bad guy wins or the book ended on a cliffhanger and the next book isn’t out yet.
Yes, while the world continues to spin, it seems your private world is ending.
As readers, this is what we want. We want characters that affect us, characters we can relate to, that we have an emotional connection to. As writers, we want the same to be said of our books. So, how do we do it?
The answer is both simple and amazingly complex, easy and terrifying. We have to put ourselves and our experiences into the stories. As Robert Frost once said,
“No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. No surprise in the writer, no surprise in the reader.”
Simply put, if we don’t put our emotions into the book we are writing, if we don’t feel the words as they are being put on paper, neither will the reader. We can’t tell readers how to feel, they have to feel it in their souls. We have to put the words we’re uncomfortable with on paper. We have to put the action as we see it on paper. As writers, we have to put the hard stuff down. When writers truly write something, they are tearing away a piece of their souls and putting that on paper. That’s the way writers keep readers coming back for more. They give the raw pieces of themselves, their hopes, dreams, and fears away, and pray that it’s enough.
Seems tough, doesn’t it? It is. But, the only people who ever said writing was easy were the ones who haven’t tried to write.